7 things your wedding photographer needs to know (but won’t guess)
You might think that hiring a wedding photographer means we magically know every single detail about your big day. Spoiler: we don’t.
Sure, we’ve shot dozens (maybe hundreds) of weddings, but we don’t have a crystal ball. There are some things we can’t possibly know unless you tell us. And these are the very things that will make or break how your story is photographed.
If you’re planning to elope in Denmark, between paperwork, logistics, and emotions, the last thing you want is to realize afterwards that something crucial slipped through the cracks.
So, let’s keep it real: here are the 7 things you absolutely need to tell your wedding photographer if you want photos that actually feel like you.
1. The timeline
Yes, it sounds obvious. But it’s the number one thing couples forget to share properly. We need to know when things are happening, not just so we can be in the right spot at the right time, but also so we can pace ourselves: knowing when to be hyper-alert and when it’s safe to grab a sip of water. On your wedding day, trust me, you’ll lose track of time. A clear timeline is what keeps the day running smoothly without stress.
2. What’s important to you
Do you want candid shots of you laughing and crying, or do you dream of a few dramatic portraits in front of Copenhagen City Hall? Maybe family photos matter more to you than dinner (if you’re even having one). Tell us. Show us examples.
The clearer your vision, the more we can put our energy into capturing exactly what matters to you.
3. Make a list of people (if you have guests)
Most of my couples elope, but if you’re bringing a handful of friends or family, make a list of who’s non-negotiable to capture. We don’t know who your grandma is, or which friend flew across the world to stand by your side. A simple list makes sure no one gets forgotten in the chaos.
4. Family situations
If there’s drama, tension, or simply someone who needs special attention, tell us. Nothing is more awkward than asking divorced parents who haven’t spoken in twenty years to stand together for a photo (true story, it wasn’t pretty). We don’t need to know the story, we just want to avoid landmines and protect your peace.
5. Comfort levels
Not everyone is naturally comfortable in front of a camera. Some couples love PDA, some would rather keep it subtle. Maybe one of you thrives in the spotlight while the other wants to melt into the background. When we know this, we can adjust, guiding you gently without pushing you into something that feels fake.
6. Personal rituals
Are you exchanging handwritten vows, bringing a family heirloom, or doing something symbolic just between the two of you? These are the details that make your story unique. Don’t assume we’ll notice unless you tell us: let us in on the little rituals so we can catch those moments before they slip away.
7. Level of direction
This one’s huge, especially for elopements in Copenhagen where there’s no big reception or timeline to “fill” the day.
Some couples want us to fade into the background and just catch things as they happen. Others want more guidance - something like “stand here, hold hands like this, let’s spin around”. Both are valid.
But we need to know which one feels right for you, so we can match our energy to yours.
The truth?
A great wedding photographer can still do their job without any of this information - but why settle for “good enough”? You’re investing in someone to document one of the most important days of your life. Spend an extra 20 minutes sharing these things with us, and you’ll walk away with photos that not only look beautiful, but feel like you.
And here’s the thing: I’ve photographed hundreds of weddings across Denmark and beyond. I’ve seen it all - from quiet two-person elopements in the Danish countryside to wild, unpredictable celebrations.
That experience means I know how to adapt to any situation. But when you share these seven things with me, you’re not just getting my skill; you’re giving me the chance to create photographs that reflect your story in the most authentic way possible.
Get in touch with me today to get the photographer off your to-do list.
